I have read somewhere previously that the number of Muslim blood donors in the UK is generally very low in comparison to the Muslim population as a whole. As it is World Blood Donor Day today, I decided to have a conversation at breakfast with my family about becoming blood donors once we are able to safely give blood.
I am so disappointed with their responses, even my own parents who I had a telephone conversation with just now. Some of the reasons are to an extent understandable, like needing to find the time and having to go out of the way to donate blood and would donate if it could be easier, like on a Friday at a mosque (once we are out of the pandemic). But other comments have really upset me. Like saying, how can they guarantee that the blood won't be given to someone undeserving like a child abuser, or that the person won't commit other sins. The whole conversation was very judgmental because who are we to decide who deserves to live or die? And more importantly, even if our blood did go to an alcoholic or abuser, we will not be held accountable for their sins so I don't see why it even matters. I've heard similar things when discussing organ donation but I never thought people actually thought that about blood donation as well.
The conversations today have all ended bitterly (literally with my family saying I am killing the mood today) and I feel like I cannot have this conversation again. I want to donate blood one day but I am not sure they will be supportive of that. Has anyone been able to successfully change their families mind and they've become blood donors after showing lots of resistance?
NazminA
Lawyer specialising in Residential Development, Estate Management & General Infrastructure, and Co-Chair of Muslim Women's Network UK (All views & opinions expressed on MWN Hub are my own and unless expressly stated, should not be taken to represent the views of MWNUK)
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