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My Husband

03/09/2022 463 Views Bullying Add to Favourite 2 Comments 0
 
I became a Muslim four years ago when I married my husband. At first he insisted on full coverage with a three-layered niqab. It was very hard to get used to this as a white western woman but I persisted and have become used to this. Now my husband is insisting I reveal more of my face and I don't think it is appropriate simply because his faith is wavering yet I am aware that obedience to him is important. I don't have any Muslim friends and don't have a job because he likes me to be at home. I used to be a journalist working on radio. It is not easy pleasing him because he changes his mind a lot about my dress and behaviour. He frightens me when he gets angry with me.

 

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  • mwnhub

    20/09/2022

    Hi, thank you for sharing this, it’s sounds like there is a lot going on for you at the moment. With the added layer of being a new Muslim I am sure you feel a little overwhelmed and isolated. Our Helpline provide a faith and culturally sensitive service to all. They may be able to talk through your options and how to manage your current circumstances. I encourage you to contact MWN Helpline, you can remain anonymous if you like. You can call the MWN Helpline on 0800 999 5786 or email info@mwnhelpline.co.uk This is a safe space for you to talk about how you are feeling, and provide advice and how to manage your current circumstances. I wish you all the best.

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  • Anonymous

    16/09/2022

    Hi there, it sounds like youre going through a really stressful time. You say he frightens you? What does he do? Also, how do you want to dress? You have the choice to wear whatever you want- hijab or no hijab. You said you used to be a journalist- do you miss this? What does stayin at home make you feel like? Sis, this isnt true islamic behaviour. You do not need to stay home and cover up. You can work if you want to and have your own life. If you feel in danger at all, please call 999. You can also call the MWN UK Helpline. They can talk to you about your situation (with no judgement) I hope you get the life you want and not get controlled.

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